Have you ever used your giving to steer decisions or send a message. It might seem harmless—or even wise—to designate your giving or withhold it when you disagree with leadership. But when our generosity becomes a tool for control, we cross a line. On todays Faith & Finance on AFR, Rob West continues the 'Why We Give' series by exposing this subtle yet destructive motive—and pointing to a better way. Then Rob answers questions on a variety of financial topics.